Why do I always get the shit end of the stick?

I've recently been trying to go out with this one girl in my life, but had no progress.  It was complicated at first, but then I thought things were sorting out.  We've hung out a couple of times and even talked on the phone for hours.  Now it turns out she's been playing me, or she just sees me as more of a brother.  Yeah well you don't fucking cuddle with your brother.  I don't know if she's saying it to cover up something, or she's just saying it to test me, but I don't like it.  She kind of hinted me before, but I wanted to ignore it.  Now it's time to grow up and face the fact that she sees me as a friend and nothing more.  ]: